The Yorùbá Tribe

Tohib's family is of the Yorùbá tribe. The Yorùbá people are an African ethnic group that inhabits western Africa with the majority of this population from Nigeria. They are one of the largest African ethnic groups south of the Sahara Desert and not a single group, but rather a collection of diverse people bound together by a common language, history, and culture. Yoruba mythology holds that all Yoruba people descended from a hero called Odua or Oduduwa and believe that every man possesses “Ayanmo” (destiny, fate).

Fabric / Aso Oke:

Aso Oke is a prominent fabric in Nigerian Yoruba weddings. It is a handwoven textile that comes in rich and vibrant colors, often with intricate patterns and designs. For the groom, Aso Oke is commonly used to craft his Agbada, cap (Fila), and other accessories. The bride’s Aso Oke is used for her headwrap (Gele), shawl, and sometimes incorporated into her blouse or skirt.

Men's Agbada:

Agbada is a traditional Nigerian outfit worn by men during special occasions like weddings. It consists of three main pieces: a long-sleeved shirt, a matching pair of trousers, and a large, intricately embroidered “robe” worn over the gown. The groom’s Agbada is usually more elaborate, featuring bold colors and intricate details.

Womens Gele:

Gele is a head wrap worn by both the bride and other female guests. It is an artful display of fabric manipulation, skillfully wrapped around the head to form an elegant and elaborate headpiece.

Coral Beads:

Coral beads are an integral part of the bride and groom’s jewelry in a Yoruba wedding. These vibrant, deep coral colored beads are believed to bring good luck, protection, and fertility to the bride.

Money Spraying:

While there is no strict gift-giving tradition, it is customary to give monetary gifts to the couple by “spraying” them. The spraying tradition involves guests showering the couple with money during dances and celebrations. It is seen as a gesture of goodwill and support for the newlyweds. During the spraying do not pick up money that has already fallen on the floor and “recycle” it by spraying the couple again. Please bring cash to join the tradition!

La Hora Loca:

A festive tradition that originated in Latin American countries. "La Hora Loca" translates to "The Crazy Hour" and it usually takes place at the beginning or towards the end of a party. During La Hora Loca, the music and energy are turned up, confetti, streamers, and other party favors are also often used during this time.